笑嘻嘻对n久前这么一个小帖子居然还记得这么清楚笑嘻嘻 wrote:我小心翼翼地说，这个也有人做研究，好像还蛮广泛被接受的数据，至少我听广播专家都这个调调儿。
http://www.fabvalley.org/bbs/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=4960还有段讲有孩子的夫妇are generally (90%?) less satisfied with their relationships, but parodoxically their relationships are also more stable. The explanation is that even though children are sources of happiness, parents usually give up other sources of happiness, so the net happiness is lower than before.
拉回到胡兰成，有没有人象我一样觉得他对材料的剪裁很耐人寻味。即使是在古代，即使是在把男人的下流当风流的古代小说里，拿女人钱总还是个羞耻的事儿吧。他给张爱钱，一般男人难道不要得意的吹嘘一下？他不，就不提，就要显得女人倒贴。哗，我觉得他真不是一般的变态。
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