恶人谷

离世消息传出后的这个周末，连素不相识的人也表示难以置信。不仅仅是因为他英年早逝，也因为人们视他为鲜活的典范，演绎着夫妻双方都可以拥有成功事业这一新理念。
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古德伯格的父母一起读过《女性的奥秘》(The Feminine Mystique)——事实上，是古德伯格的父亲介绍读这本书的，桑德伯格在书中说。1976年，波拉·古德伯格(Paula Goldberg)协助成立了一个救助残疾儿童的非盈利组织。身为法学教授的丈夫麦尔(Mel)夜里去学校教课，早上给一家人做早餐。
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在接下来的十年里，古德伯格和桑德伯格开创了获取在线信息的新方式，生育了一对儿女，获得了极大的财富，并且解决了夫妻分工的问题。对古德伯格来说，往返旧金山湾区和洛杉矶两地上下班成为了一种负担，所以就选择了搬家，后来他还开玩笑说自己在掷硬币决定住哪里时输了。他付账单，她筹办生日派对，两人经常在5:30离开办公室，先和孩子们一起吃晚餐，然后再接着工作。

I want to thank all of our friends and family for the outpouring of love over the past few days. It has been extraordinary - and each story you have shared will help keep Dave alive in our hearts and memories.
I met Dave nearly 20 years ago when I first moved to LA. He became my best friend. He showed me the internet for the first time, planned fun outings, took me to temple for the Jewish holidays, introduced me to much cooler music than I had ever heard.
We had 11 truly joyful years of the deepest love, happiest marriage, and truest partnership that I could imagine... He gave me the experience of being deeply understood, truly supported and completely and utterly loved – and I will carry that with me always. Most importantly, he gave me the two most amazing children in the world.
Dave was my rock. When I got upset, he stayed calm. When I was worried, he said it would be ok. When I wasn’t sure what to do, he figured it out. He was completely dedicated to his children in every way – and their strength these past few days is the best sign I could have that Dave is still here with us in spirit.
Dave and I did not get nearly enough time together. But as heartbroken as I am today, I am equally grateful. Even in these last few days of completely unexpected hell – the darkest and saddest moments of my life – I know how lucky I have been. If the day I walked down that aisle with Dave someone had told me that this would happen – that he would be taken from us all in just 11 years – I would still have walked down that aisle. Because 11 years of being Dave Goldberg’s wife, and 10 years of being a parent with him is perhaps more luck and more happiness than I could have ever imagined. I am grateful for every minute we had.
As we put the love of my life to rest today, we buried only his body. His spirit, his soul, his amazing ability to give is still with it. It lives on in the stories people are sharing of how he touched their lives, in the love that is visible in the eyes of our family and friends, in the spirit and resilience of our children. Things will never be the same – but the world is better for the years my beloved husband lived.

Elysees wrote:她写东西做演讲真的很动人，Lean In这本书就体现得很明显，看的人都很能同情。

qinger wrote:我从来就不喜欢跑步机这种东西。要跑还是在室外跑。

笑嘻嘻 wrote:我跑步的时候是唯一能够看电视的时候了。